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Posted by: jennieprice (Jun 14, 2006 2:55pm) |
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Slims notes are as always free for the asking to everyone. As for my stories of our life together, I'm not the writer that Slim was, nor am I the showman (girl, person whatever.)Never will be, I'm just a mark and fan who loves the sideshow.
Here's how we met. Back in 1998, being the student I was, I got interested in 'freaks' then later the sideshow and how they were run. I came across Joe Bates' DG, and started posting there. Slim and myself began emailing each other, and in 1999, I came to visit him to learn fire eating. We had taken a liking to each other during the preceding year, and after the meeting, he asked me to marry him, and I said yes. I went back to England to get some money together, and came back in September 2000, we were married in October of that year, and happily.
It wasn't always easy, he'd had health issues before and since the marriage, a phycho ex-wife, and the reuniting with his daughter, meeting his gand kids and great grand kids.Arguements, falling outs, sometimes just to make up again ;)
The usual marrial bliss.But underneath it all, we loved each other. A very may-december relationship. When we married, I was 27, he 65. Slim was a gentleman and gentle man no matter what. He loved, loved life and wsa in a way a child and saw the world through those eyes, which is a great thing these days.
Yes, I did hear the stories time and again, even said "oh, not THAT one again" but still loved hearing them. The people he talked about, especially the oned he worked with in the sideshow and magic areas, he talked about with love. Slim rarely had a bad word to say about anyone, even the people he didn't like.
Yesterday, I lost a husband, friend, companion, and yes I'll say lover. As a hubby, I got lucky to have found him. Even though I thought otherwise, he told me every day I was the most beautiful, no other woman would do. Ok, so I've got off on a tangent here, but I believe that this shows what a grat guy Slim was, and for me at least, the lights of the sideshow midway got dimmer.
Krista
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