In this case it was about one person wanting to debate another person about something that could of been handled through pm's rather than taking over the thread with a fruitless debate that no one benifits from, and leaves one or more participants offended. Neither fruitful, nor rewarding.

I refuse to debate theology on here, but I also need to learn to practice more restraint, and learn to ignore more. Sometimes things can be read into what others post, and despite our best intentions, only esculates into name calling and resentment.

The original post was asking how to avoid theological confrontations amongst different churches when performing for chuches, or something along those lines. My suggestion is to never make assumptions, and when in doubt, ask the Pastor or Priest in a private and respectful way if something maybe not appropriate for the church.

Exactly, Danny!