Although the cafe is great I would have to vote for Visions & it's board Meeting of Magical Minds, as I have stated previously the only site that I would be willing to pay a subscription for.

I understand Visions MOMM [Forums] bit the dust. I can't access it anymore.

As for XRIllusions - I hate to speak ill of any one, but be careful about signing up for his mailing list. He may have the problem under control now, but I was getting an unreasonable amount of spam telling me "respond now to join the list, don't respond and it's the last you'll hear from us." Dozens of messages later - and several complaints later it was still going on. It didn't stop until I reported him to the administrators of the mailing list server he was using.